SUBTLE BUT DANGEROUS PEOPLE TO AVOID IF YOU LOVE YOUR LIFE
Life is a journey, in this journey you cannot travel alone,you will come across different kind of people in life,among these people, you will find people of different characters , behaviour, orientation about life.Sometimes people just keep company with people without considering the implications that the people will have on their own life.In order to avoid regret at the end of one's life when the damage has been done and no avenue for any repair or amendment, it is very pertinent that you as individual take a precautionary measure before you choose your friends or companions.
Sometimes these people may not necessarily be our friend that we have,they can just be our neighbour, colleagues at work or school in which things constantly bring us together, we must watch out and be careful so that we will not fall victim of the ways and actions of these people.
I will be sharing with you in this article some of the people you don't actually need in your life,though that doesn't mean you won't relate with them but with utmost caution and with the mindset of not allowing them to get into your life and thereby resulting into life regret.
WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE TO WATCH OUT FOR ?
1) WHO EVER SEEKS YOUR DOWN FALL
Sometimes human beings are so funny,if you have noticed that someone you call your friend is always seeking for your down fall,you have had bitter experience with him more than 2 times and yet you have never seen any reason to quit that relationship.What can you be getting from such friendship that will be more valuable than your life? Is it until you end up in grave that you will come to your senses that you don't need such fellow in your life?
It may look difficult to say good bye but you can gradually begin to distant yourself from such person slowly until the friendship is gone.Ensure you don't part with fight and let it not be instant but with wisdom you can do that.
2) WHO NEVER SEES ANYTHING GOOD IN YOU
If you have these kind of people around you,you will be wondering if God actually created anything good in you,no matter what you do ,even if everybody is applauding you for what you have done ,for them you have done nothing.If you continue to company with such person, you are doing harm to yourself because words are powerful, as they continue to condem and criticise you,your actions and everything about you,it's just a matter of time,you begin to see yourself through their own eye,how bad and good for nothing you are,you will start losing your self esteem and they will mold your life by their words and actions.Be very careful of these kind of people for they can kill your self esteem and turn you to nothing in life.
3) WHOSE PRESENCE IS A DISCOURAGEMENT TO YOU
These kind of people are source of discouragement,they are the type of people that will never speak positively about life,anytime you are with them,all they will keep talking about life is discouragement such as difficulties and challenges of life in every sphere of human endeavour.Not a single word of encouragement or never see the positive aspect of life.If you go to them exited about life ,you will leave them downcast and depressed.You are in trouble by making a mistake of sharing your problem with them,they will magnify and compound it and you will be worse than before you go to them.The implication of their attitude to your life is that you begin to see life the way they see it,you cannot have negative attitude about life and you will become something in life,what you think is what you will become,depart from such person if you love your life.
4) WHOSE YOUR SUCCESS AND ACHIEVEMENTS IS A PAIN TO THEM
If you notice anyone around you that whenever you have a success or an achievement, he or she is always feel sad.When other people are rejoicing with you and celebrating your success, you always notice a bad feelings in them,run for your life, such person is dangerous to your life.
Be mindful of this truth that if such person has his way,he can block any success or good things of life that may be coming to you or divert them.Such people are named " bad belle " you don't need them in your life.
5) WHO EVER LURES YOU INTO EVIL
Every responsible individual knows what is acceptable from what is not acceptable by the society and those attitudes that can damage one's life.We all know what moral teaches us and also to those who are of God ,we know what God commands us not to do.Any one in your life that lures you to doing those things is an enemy of your life,no matter how that evil is painted to be good and attractive ,it will always end in regret.Be the one that will never condone evil around you ,stand for what is good and say no to such people around you and safe your life and future.You don't need them in your life ,stay way from them.
7) WHO EVER CAN TAKE YOU AWAY FROM GOD.
For the people who have submitted their life to Jesus and have experienced a transformed life,such people cannot afford to company with people that will take them away from God.This is very important and you must take it seriously not to lose your salvation which is your very life,the undisputable truth is this that the secret of success,achievement , fufilmment in life lies in Christ Jesus,don't allow anybody to take you from him.To my esteem readers, this is not religious sentiment,we are talking from personal experience.
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