WINNING THE HEART OF YOUR INLAWS-TO-BE, AT YOUR FIRST VISIT

Winning the heart of the inlaws to be is one of the most important hurdles everyone who is in a relationship and getting ready for marriage will have to cross.Many people who have a very high hope of marrying their partner who can never imagine that it won't come to be have had their hope dashed due to their first encounter with their  inlaws-to-be,if these people actually prepared and knew what is expected of them,may be they would have won the hearts of their inlaws-to-be,unfortunately they got fired (rejected) and that was the end of the relationship
 

WHAT ARE THESE THINGS TO DO?

PREPARE FOR THE OCCASION

Seriously speaking, this is not easy at all ,a lot of things will be going on in your mind,a little mistake can scatter everything,hence you must get prepared for this very important occasion ,do your own homework very well to find out certain things (their likes and dislikes) from your partner concerning his or her family  (everyone matters, even the younger ones in the family) acceptance by all gives you rest of mind and automatic entrance into the family without ache.Your preparation also includes what to wear because first impression matters so much and speaks a lot about you. Always remember the saying that says "First impression last longer".

AVOID CONTROVERSIAL SUBJECTS DURING COMMUNICATION

This occasion is going to be full of communication and a lot of discussions, you must get ready and one of the things you must avoid in the course of your discussion is controversial issues which can lead to argument between you and your inlaws to be.You can even find out those things to avoid from your partner so that you won't go in that direction during communication.

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ENSURE YOU GO WITH A GIFT

Gifts are powerful tools in winning the heart of people,no matter how small it may be,ensure you go with a gift ,if possible find out from your partner what will his or her family members  appreciate and get it for them.Going with a gift speaks volume of who you are ,it can mean to them  that they will be having a generous inlaw very soon and the reverse may be the case when you don't go with a gift and this may affect your acceptance into the family.

DON'T ASK OR BORROW ANYTHING

Sometimes you may be tempted to want to ask or borrow something from your inlaw, probably you see  something attractive to you and you feel like asking for it,don't be carried away with the euphoria of being felt accepted already,it may be deceptive.Borrowing money shouldn't happen, you may be giving an impression that you are coming to marry their son or daughter because of their wealth.

  
BE CAREFUL WHEN THINGS ARE OFFERED TO YOU

Going to meet your inlaws-to-be for the first time is a serious business,you must be ready for whatever situation you may encounter in the place,sometimes it may even be well planned to see how you will react,hence you must be very careful especially when you are offered things such as food,drinks and even room to sleep.Avoid smoking or drinking alcohol .When things that are not up to your taste are offered to you which you won't accept ordinarily, in meeting your inlaws to-be,you must be ready to accept all  as long as it won't kill you.Don't ever show your displeasure for any reason.

DON'T FORGET TO MENTION YOUR  PARENTS

Especially the parents of your partner, they are very much interested in knowing at least something about your own parents,this will build confidence in them especially when you let them know how willing and eager your parents are ready to accept their own child as inlaw.

DON'T MENTION UGLY OR REOCCURRING INCIDENT IN YOUR FAMILY

In the course of discussion, never mention those ugly incidents in your family that can cause fear in their hearts which can make them to reject you. Don't talk about that person in your family that is suffering from psychiatric problem or the one that is in imprison because of the crime committed (people don't want to be associated with such ), don't mention how your father  beats your mum or how your sister is into prostitution. All of these are not the subject for discussion that day,they will get to know later when you have already become their inlaw.

YOU CAN GET REJECTED AFTER ALL

Many have got rejected by inlaws to be not because of what they did or didn't do,such inlaws to be just hated them  because of one unacceptable reasons,this usually happens, my advice for anyone that wants to meet his or her inlaws to be must talk to God first before meeting them,this will make it easier and your acceptance will be with ease. In case you are far from God,you only talk to whom you are closed to,please click this now 



  
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