SPARK UP YOUR RELATIONSHIP AGAIN
This is a very painful experience and it can actually affect every other area of your life if nothing is done about it because this can result into the end of such relationship which you initially had high hope in it .Emotional trauma is the resultant effect and this has great negative impact over your overall health status and even other areas of your life such as daily activities and your relationship with other people around you.
WHAT YOU CAN DO TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP SPARKLING AGAIN
IDENTIFY YOUR LIKES AND DISLIKES
It's very important that the two of you identify your likes and dislikes,discuss them timely before degenerating to losing your sparks in your relationship. There are some things that both of you didn't see when you started together, now those things are unfolding and it's causing cracks in your relationship, don't shy away from them,call yourself together and express your feelings about them,this will help each party to readjust and take correction and you will begin to enjoy your relationship again.
CONSCIOUS EFFORT TO SPICE IT UP
One of the reasons why some relationships begin to lose its sparks especially those intended to result into marriage is because of long periods of courtship or dating as the case may be,when the marriage is not in view despite long period of courtship,this may begin to happen.My advice for everyone that wants to enter into relationship should be ready for marriage by all standard, don't engage in long courtship,it may end up in heart breaking.If you are already in a long relationship, do all you can to get married as soon as possible ,it will help you from losing your partner.
To spice up your relationship ,you must make conscious effort to recognise what your partner like and concentrate on them,those things that will bring smiles, laughter, joy and happiness and your partner will ever continue to desire it from you and will not want lose it.
LET LOVE BE YOUR DRIVING FORCE
Ensure that you enter into relationship where there is genuine love in the air,not lust or infatuation ,not because of compassion or material things,let love be the driving force for both of you(not one-sided,very dangerous ) before you begin the relationship.If anything apart from love is what is bringing you together,if anything happens to what brought you together, example ; accident which damage that beautiful face,lost of Job hence no money,fire outbreak and property destroyed,because the spark in that relationship is due to the presence of those things, when those things disappear, your sparks disappear also.
REVISIT ALL CAUSES OF SPARKS YOU HAD LEFT DOING
Many times when people are getting along in a relationship and all is wonderful at the beginning ,seeing them going extra mile to make their partner happy, later on they get used to one another and they begin to drop those causes of sparks,this will actually affect your relationship ,if you are like that,begin to look back at those things and find away to continue from where you stopped and do it better,you will discover that those lost sparks will begin to return.
READ BOOKS ON RELATIONSHIP
It's very important to seek for knowledge and information, through books you can actually know what you aren't doing well and what you need to do more or start doing to spark up your relationship.
GO FOR COUNSELLING
Sometimes you will need to consult counsellors if you have tried all you can and no change occurs and you feel that the relationship is at a dangerous point and the unexpected may happen if nothing is done which you don't pray for.Look for worthy and experience counsellor to counsel you on what to do,this may be the saving grace for your relationship.
PRAY
If you are sure that God wants you to be together for life as husband and wife,go to God in prayer and it may even be what is beyond the two of you that is behind what's happening, in the place of prayer you will be able to handle them.
Finally , every relationship that will end up in marriage should begin with God and that is the guarantee for unending joy,victory, prosperity in marriage, seek God first.If you don't know this God find out here.
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