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SECURING THE FUTURE OF YOUR CHILD

Sometimes in life you wonder what could have happened, how do they get it wrong,you try to reason it out,search for answers, yet it remains a mystery to you because  in all your wondering,searching and reasoning  you cannot conclude why the life of that person became miserable, wretched and pitiable.

In my candid opinion in which if you can also reason in my own line of thought,you will definitely agree with me that   every parent has a large role to play in securing the future of their children,if they fail in playing this role,it will take God's intervention to secure the future of such child,hence it's a serious disaster to the children if the parent fail to play their role.

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What are the things to secure?

As parent, it's pertinent to secure the future of their economic and financial,relationships, emotional ,health,social status ,religious,marital life of their children.

6 MOST IMPORTANT ROLES TO SECURE YOUR CHILD FUTURE

1) YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SPOUSE

Many couples have not come to realise that their wrong way of living together  as couple can actually affect the future of their children,when a couple never stop fighting, abusing each other.In front the children ,husband or the wife is lying to each other,no truthfulness or trust.The children are watching,copying those bad ways of living and grow up to manifest such life and thereby causing them to have issues or problems in their marriage,some  may end up in divorce.Divorce opens door for in security in the future of children.

Apart from your relationship with your spouse,your bad way of life such as cigarette smoking,womanising, alcoholism, theft ,lying etc All  these bad ways of life do not end with you,it's just a matter of time,you will soon see them in your children and it will even be worse,be careful, the future of your children can be determined by the way you are living your life now.

2) IT DOES NOT KILL, DISCIPLINE THEM

Why do you so emotional with your children to the extent that it becomes difficult to discipline them when they do wrong?To be sincere with you, you are not doing them good rather you are actually preparing a doomed future for them .Children don't actually know what is good for them but you know,that's while you are their parent to show them the right way,if you fail to correct them in which sometimes it requires discipline, then you are failing in your responsibility.Discipline may or may not require spanking,but when spanking is needed,please kindly do that,spanking doesn't kill but rather makes your correction more effective.See other ways to discipline children without spanking here

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3) RIGHT AND QUALITY EDUCATION

Sometimes children expecially at a very small age tend not to have interest in education,sometimes because they are not doing well academically, they tend to lose interest in their academic.As parent,we must understand that beyond using academic to earn a living in life,education broadens the mind,makes you intelligent and affect positively your thinking faculty,hence encouraging your children to have right and quality education makes them secure their future in whatever they want to do in life,it places them in a better position than their counterparts who didn't have such education.

4) DISCOVER THEIR TALENTS, STRENGTH AND PASSION

You must put your eyes to the ground, watch carefully to see what are the things that your children are passionate in doing,the area of their strength or a particular talent or gift you have noticed in them.It's your responsibility to encourage and  support them in making use or do what they are passionate about.Sometimes we may not really see it as anything but if this is their passion,you should know that they are different from us,don't impose what you want on them,it won't end well with them,when you encourage them towards their passion,talent or gift ,you are actually preparing to make them excel in that thing, hence securing their future financially expecially if that talent or passion can be monetized.

  5) BEING WATCHFUL AND ASK QUESTIONS 

Your watchfulness can actually save you from a lot of problems that your children can cause for themselves unknowingly which can actually destroy their future.Don't close your eyes to what is going on around your children,your child is always indoor,behind close door alone,please find out ,he or she may be involving in an act that can destroy his /her future.Screen the friends of your children, if you notice bad ones among them caution your child and ensure that the friendship is terminated ,doing all of these are a way of securing the future of your children.

6) DO THE NEEDFUL

Above all,when you have done all that is required as parent,what would make your effort to count and not be in vain is when you commit the children to their creator which is God.see here....God is the only one that can ultimately  secure the future of your child in every area,don't fail to do that,doing this guarantee a secured future.


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