THE KILLERS OF HOME YOU MUST AVOID

Killers of home are real and they are causing alots of havoc in many homes,knowing these killers of homes will help you to avoid them and preserve your home from meeting a dead end.Have you ever been to a home or family where all things are going on well and working out smoothly without serious and unresolved misunderstanding and fight? Such homes are like heaven on earth.If you have not married and you are opportune to find yourself in such homes,you will love to marry and have your own home and you may begin to anticipate for marriage as soon as possible or you just wish you were married,If you have married already and you are experiencing hell in your own home,you will wonder why your own home is like hell on earth.Sometimes you may wish you weren't married.

WHAT ARE THESE KILLERS OF HOME YOU MUST AVOID?

LACK OF TRUST

Trust plays a vital role in a home,when a husband can no longer trust his wife and wife cannot trust her husband again ,this is the beginning of trouble in that home.You must do all you can to remain trustworthy,no matter what happens ,ensure your partner can still trust you.Don't hide anything from your partner and don't betray his or her trust ,let your Yes be Yes and your No be No,you cannot build your home on lies ,you will rather destroy it when trust is lacking.

COMPARISON

Comparison is one of the killers of home you must avoid,when you got married to that woman or man,at least you saw some of those attitudes,features that have become reason for comparison,no woman or man wants to be compared with others on a ground of him or her is lesser or worse compared to that man or woman outside.Avoid statements like "your mate outside " "don't you see that man or woman " "how I which you were like him or her" etc.

Even if there are things you wish your partners should be doing and he or she doesn't, rather for you to point his her attention to someone else doing that,you can actually encourage him or her in a loving manner without making her to know or suspect you are comparing him or her with another person.One thing you must know is that every individual is different, we all have our strengths and weaknesses, appreciate the strengths of your partner and encourage him or her to improve on her weaknesses.Stop your comparison and safe your home.

LACK OF CONSIDERATION

Many spouses have allowed their I don't care attitude and lack of consideration to ruin their homes.When you are married,the issue of am on my own mentality is no longer allowed,before you do anything you must put your partner into consideration, how will he or she feels if I go ahead and do this thing.Consideration is a sign of togetherness, when you put your partner into consideration, he or she feels belong and there is feeling of acknowledgement.Don't kill your home due to lack of consideration,I don't care attitude is dangerous for your home.

OVERBEARING

Having an overbearing attitude can kill your home,when you often trying to control the behavior of your partner in an annoying or unwanted way,this can be frustrating and overwhelming to your partner, every adult both man and woman has an ego ,when you often trying to control him or her in annoyance or unwanted manner ,to such person ,it looks like you are downgrading him or her when he or she is not your child, even your biological children who are of age won't want take it.

THIRD PARTY INFLUENCE

Another home killer you must avoid is the third party influence,this third party influence can either be from the spouse immediate family such as the parents, sisters and brothers or from the friends or neighbours. Whatever is happening between you and your spouse,let it not jump over the fence to the neighbourhood , your family members or your friends.Try as much as possible to settle your misunderstandings and grievances within yourself as long as it lies within your capacity to resolve those issues, in the case whereby it has gone beyond what spouses can resolve, look for a very trustworthy individual who you both respect and honour.

UNAVAILABILITY

Don't you ever be too busy not to attend to your partners,one of the reasons for marriage is for companionship, how can you be married and yet still be feeling lonely.Many spouses have become so much attached to their job,ministry or hobby to the extent that they don't have time for their families, this attitude doesn't only affect your spouse but also have dangerous effect on your children.If you have not being available for you family, please have a change of attitude today before you kill your home.

ARCH ENEMY

If you don't know this truth before now,I want you to believe this that devil is against homes, that is why he is an arch enemy of man and a major killer of homes.You don't need to invite him before he comes around, you are the one that will rebuke him and won't permit him in your home.His aim is to kill ,still and destroy.You can only say NO and rebuke him if only you have done this(click).

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